{"id":1,"date":"2018-10-04T16:10:28","date_gmt":"2018-10-04T06:10:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.hayleyjensen.net\/coaching\/?p=1"},"modified":"2018-10-04T16:19:20","modified_gmt":"2018-10-04T06:19:20","slug":"uniqueness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hayleyjensen.net\/coaching\/career-development\/uniqueness\/","title":{"rendered":"Have you found your uniqueness?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-479 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.hayleyjensen.net\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Hayley-Jensen-Coaching-FB-Banner-2.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"820\" height=\"312\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.hayleyjensen.net\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Hayley-Jensen-Coaching-FB-Banner-2.png 820w, https:\/\/www.hayleyjensen.net\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Hayley-Jensen-Coaching-FB-Banner-2-600x228.png 600w, https:\/\/www.hayleyjensen.net\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Hayley-Jensen-Coaching-FB-Banner-2-300x114.png 300w, https:\/\/www.hayleyjensen.net\/coaching\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/Hayley-Jensen-Coaching-FB-Banner-2-768x292.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">I feel incredibly humbled that what I love to do so much can have such a profound impact\u00a0on other people in this world. That&#8217;s what music does. It\u2019s an incredibly precious thing and something I will never, ever take for granted.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">I find it really\u00a0helpful\u00a0to regularly take the time out to think\u00a0on and try to define\/refine what it is about me as a person, and as an artist that connects with people on a deeper level.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Beyond the hype.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">What&#8217;s unique and lasting &#8211; the essence of what I bring&#8230;what impression I leave behind, what difference do I make&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">The reason I\u00a0do this\u00a0is because\u00a0I want to bring\u00a0<\/span><em>more<\/em><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0of that to the table in my music. In songwriting, performing, everything I do and share&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Singing and making music is so much fun!\u00a0<span style=\"color: #000000;\">And that\u2019s fine if you just want to do it for fun, but it\u2019s not enough if you want to really make your mark and shine as an artist.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Think of an artist you love&#8230;\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">What is it about them, their songs, their voice, their music, that connects with you on a deeper level?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">I mean, it\u2019s great to have an amazing voice, but what are you using it to communicate? It\u2019s great to have a fan base, but what are you giving them that\u2019s impactful and lasting? Delve into this for yourself&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Spend some time thinking, journaling and working out your &#8216;why&#8217;.. your &#8216;purpose&#8217; or underlying reason for loving and making music, go beyond &#8216;you just like to do it&#8217;&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Here\u2019s a few questions to get you started. Keep asking \u2018why\u2019 until you get to the root of each\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>What are you passionate about &amp; why?<\/li>\n<li>What are some things you really disagree with in this world and why? (sometimes it\u2019s easier to think of this than what we are passionate about)<\/li>\n<li>What do you believe in with all of your heart, what are your values, your morals, do you have\u00a0strong opinions about something?<\/li>\n<li>Have you had to overcome adversity?\u00a0What is your story? Use your own personal transformation through life to help transform others. I love this quote by Joseph Campbell\u00a0&#8211; \u201c<em>Where you stumble, there lies your treasure.<\/em>\u201d<\/li>\n<li>In your opinion, what would make the world a better place? Can you incorporate some of these ideas into\u00a0your music?<\/li>\n<li>Ask close friends and family who know you well what they think is unique about you as a person and as an artist.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>We should\u00a0continually challenge ourselves, give more of ourselves through our music, in our songs, when we perform, and in our lives.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t need to be &#8216;preachy&#8217; (actually,\u00a0<em>please don&#8217;t<\/em>), but you should know what you stand for and what you care about&#8230;and guess what &#8211;\u00a0other people (your fans or\u00a0future fans)\u00a0also want to know this! It&#8217;s how they connect with you and relate to you.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s interesting (and a bit scary)&#8230; as you develop and become more accustomed to the business side of music, the marketing and &#8216;process stuff&#8217; (and I guess as you just make more of it!)&#8230; it can be easy to become\u00a0disconnected from your &#8216;why&#8217; and just focus on results, sales, followers &amp; chart successes etc&#8230; but personally, I think true success and real satisfaction comes from that sense of authenticity and connectedness within your music to your true self and your \u2018deep why\u2019 or purpose for doing it in the first place&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easy to play it safe, imitate, or do what you \u2018think people will like\u2019, but there is only one YOU in this world. Communicate your message to the world in a way that only you can.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else<\/em>\u201d &#8211; Judy Garland<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s plenty of great singers out there, millions of \u2018good\u2019 songs&#8230; but the ones that shine brighter than the rest are the ones that take risks, bring their uniqueness and give us something\u00a0different.<\/p>\n<p>Something authentic, connected and real.<\/p>\n<p>Something that stops us in busy lives and makes us take notice.<br \/>\n<strong>Have you found\u00a0your \u2018<em>uniqueness<\/em>\u2019?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I hope you found this helpful, and\u00a0if you&#8217;d like more personalised support or advice on this or any other aspect of your musical journey,\u00a0<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.hayleyjensen.net\/coaching\/enquire\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">get in touch<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It would\u00a0give me great pleasure to be able to help you on\u00a0your way\u00a0<em>(helping others is a big part of my own personal \u2018why\u2019<\/em>).<\/p>\n<p>Love &amp; light,<br \/>\n<strong>Hayley<\/strong>\u00a0x<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I feel incredibly humbled that what I love to do so much can have such a profound impact\u00a0on other people in this world. 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